Do you focus on your Failures or your Successes?

What do you do… Do you focus on your failures rather than your successes? And what did your mom or dad teach you to focus on….or your Soccer Coach or Trainer in whatever team sport you were or are in?

…I know what one of my coaches “taught me” to focus on…it was the failures… MY GOD how wrong that was…and after a while, I got so damned tired of it that I decided to LEAVE the Soccer team of my “dreams”… it was a BIG… no…, HUGE decision for me as I had been with that club since I was six years old…and now I was 23 and on the “First Team”!

I needed to be around POSITIVE people that would have my Back no matter what… but this one coach was “Poison” to me… and luckily I took action on it and removed myself from that “environment”. It was a GREAT “Call”, as I found another team that truly “HAD MY BACK”…and I had theirs too. As a result, I had one of the best seasons of my soccer career.

Focusing on your Failures… will, yes, you guessed it, Bring MORE of what you focus on… MORE FAILURES… and that is not really what we want, right?!

….Now, this is a much longer conversation than I can do a DEEP Dive into here, as we clearly must and should “LEARN from our Failures”, but we should not dwell on them, that is my point… Learn, and then Move On and become better than what you were before… Focus on the Positives and make sure you surround yourself with people that “Got Your Back” and appreciate you for what you are and what you stand for.

PS. So, Abi, what parts of your life do YOU need to put your focus on that are of the POSITIVE nature?

…the Best to you…

The world is waiting for you!

Do Summmthing….
You’ve got this!